Go shopping for a costume, either alone or with your lover. Around Halloween, you will find a variety of costumes available for envisioning the possibilities. At other times of the year, you may use an online search, or go to a local sexy lingerie shop, or adult toy store. Spend some time exploring costume ideas. Think about all of the role-playing options. Do you want to be the “Sexy Schoolgirl” or perhaps the “Naughty Night Nurse”? Spark your lover’s interest by asking a few questions: “Which costumes turn you on?” “Why don’t you select a few things for me to wear from one of your fantasies?” All of this activity will open the door for future conversations.
After you find a few items, try them on. Either take your lover into the dressing room with you, or wait to observe his reaction when you step out in your outfit. Be sure to move very close to him to feel his response to each new look. And remember, your partner may need a costume as well to fulfill the fantasy! Perhaps he is the “Hot Fireman” who has come to rescue the Sexy Schoolgirl, or maybe he is the “Rich Private Patient” who needs a sponge bath from the Naughty Night Nurse. The costumes themselves may provide all of the fun alone. By simply wearing them, you will bring new sensuous dimensions to your personality, and your love life. Of course, you don’t have to wait for Halloween!
Until Next time,
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