Related to the New and Improved, Sensuous You … Tell your Lover about your Quest to become more in touch with your Sensuous Self. Explain that you want to give him Three Wishes that are related to your becoming more Sensuous and Sexy. You may need to give him a few examples to help him get started.
There are five senses, so you should give him at least one example for each. Here are a few ideas to help you get started, but the possibilities are endless.
Sight – You could dress in Sensuous, Sexy clothes . . . or role-play with costumes . . . or maybe look at Erotic Drawings together.
Touch – You could brainstorm with him about ways that he’d like to be touched . . . or take a soapy, slippery shower together . . . or demonstrate to him… how you like to be touched.
Smell – You could buy a new perfume . . . or wear no perfume at all . . . or cook a pie with cinnamon and vanilla (both are aphrodisiacs to men).
Hearing – You could watch sexy, music videos together . . . or you could listen to music to to find the best music for dancing or having sex together . . . or you could read a sexy story to him in a sultry voice.
Taste –You could create a tasting experience by assembling a variety of items, like honey, maple syrup, strawberry, or chocolate syrup, and whipped cream to discover which one tastes best when licked off of your lover’s body, or your own.
You could also explain how you are working on your Sensuality, your Imagination, and your Creativity, as it relates to Sex, and your overall Health Goals. Tell him that these are just a few suggestions. Before he makes his Three Wishes, you may want to tell him that you retain the right to veto any idea …but that you will try to keep an open mind. You will probably find that all of this talk about Sensuality and Sexuality will lead to other things. So, remember to be playful and have fun!