Rekindle the Fire

Rekindle the Fire      Find ways to spark your Sexual Imagination! When it comes to sex, women are more commonly turned on by words and ideas, or descriptions of romantic, hot relationships. On the other hand, they say men are more visual, and turned on by photographs, erotic art, or videos. And, although that may be true, women can be turned on by sexy stories, and sexy images too. The popularity of the book, “Fifty Shades of Grey,” proves that quite a few people like to read about sex.  Fantasies are an important way to spark your sexual imagination. Many years ago, Nancy Friday wrote a book entitled “My Secret Garden” which was a collection of women’s sexual fantasies. This collection demonstrates, without a doubt, that women have all sorts of sexual fantasies. If you have a chance to get a copy of this book, you will find it quite interesting. Hundreds of women answered the call to report their sexual fantasies. Of course, it’s important to remember that most fantasies look much better on paper that they do in real life. Trying to live out the fantasies is not the goal. The goal is to discover sexual fantasies that stimulate your sensuous imagination, and fire up your sexual desire.  An easy way to use fantasy to improve your libido is to go to a bookstore, and check out the erotic section. Look through the books, and find one that you like. Read it in bed alone, or with your Lover.  The goal is to find one that helps you rekindle the fire. If your lover is around, he will be fascinated that you are reading sexy stories, and will be more than willing to let you read him a “bedtime story.” 

Excerpt from “Be Your Own Sensuous Life Coach” Peggy Durham

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One thought on “Rekindle the Fire

  1. I have thoroughly enjoyed this post and have never actually read either of these books. I will have to catch up to them! I just heard that there is currently a spoof on “Fifty Shades of Grey” being presented on the stage in New York City.

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